I think there are too many inspirational stories about trauma. You turn on the Today Show or Oprah and you see a person who “survived” trauma. You have soft music, a tell-tale story, and you feel inspired. However, the bigger picture is that they worked hard to thrive after their trauma. They worked on theirRead more
Protecting Your Relationships
In my NYC therapy practice, I see how a collective sense of imminence leaves us stressed, anxious and disengaged from our relationships. Our lives are inundated with pressures from the world. Whether we are focusing on advancing our careers or have a case of fomo (fear of missing out), never before have we been soRead more
The Shared Experience of Depression in Relationships
I have observed both in and outside of my NYC therapy practice a growing dialogue for mental health issues like depression. What often seems absent, however, is the ripple effect of depression and how it can affect couples, family units, and those in close proximity to it. When one person in a unit is strugglingRead more
Finding A Therapist In NYC
How To Find A NYC Therapist Finding a therapist in NYC is a lot like dating. You scour the internet for someone whose profile seems right and when you think you may have found a match, you schedule some phone time. If that goes well, you make a date to meet in person. As thisRead more
Let’s talk about sex! (In therapy!)
I practice pro-sex therapy. I don’t really feel I have the option not to in my NYC therapy office. In the case of sex, everyone has it, had had it or has a significant relationship with it. Sex is such a vital part of who we are as human beings. To ignore it would beRead more
Talking Social Media, Relationships and Therapy On Love Bites
Last week, I was pleased to be invited by Jacqueline Raposo to join her and her co-host Ben Rosenblatt on their NYC-based weekly radio show Love Bites on the Heritage Radio Network to talk about social media and its impact on dating and relationships that I see in my therapy practice (listen here). We spokeRead more
Exploring Your Tribe: Family Therapy and Family History
Family history in family therapy and beyond Through my work as a psychotherapist and family therapist, I’ve learned that understanding family histories and identifying family patterns can help us understand why we find ourselves in repeated situations. This is vital in both family therapy–where a family unit is in the therapy office, as well asRead more
Family therapy: For New Yorkers an unconsidered psychotherapy option
JenGallardo / Foter / CC BY-NC-ND New York family therapists love family therapy Therapists who offer family counseling love family counseling. And often, those who aren’t family therapists find the idea of family counseling terrifying. Ironically this is often for the same reasons. Families are tough. If you’ve spent time in one, it’s like thatRead more
I didn’t say we _wouldn’t_ be talking about your mother in therapy
We have something of a reputation here at TriBeCa Therapy for being therapists who aren’t overly invested in the psychoanalytic method of excavating the past. It’s accurate, and it’s a reputation that’s been well earned on our part. We take exception to two corresponding assumptions underlying the dominance so often placed onRead more
Gray is the color of human
It’s so often the stuff of therapy: People piss us off. They hurt our feelings. Lie. Deceive. Over promise and under deliver. Ex-boyfriends cheat. Former bosses withhold money we’re owed. People do bad things. In NYC you hardly have to step outside for someone to rub you the wrong way. It sucks, and when thatRead more