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Going Home for the Holidays: Advice From a Therapist on Not Just Enduring Your Crazy Family

Painful family dynamics reemerge during the holidays: Reflect on them rather than just enact them. Every year around the holiday season, patients shrug and say to me, “My family is crazy,” or, another variation, “My family is weird,” before setting out to simply endure the holidays. Of course, those little words—“crazy” and “weird"—can stand in for a whole lot of harm. Crazy sometimes indicates…

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Therapy-Speak is Everywhere: We Should Consider How We Use It

Therapy-speak is our collective emotional language . Boundaries, narcissism, trauma, anxious, manic, neurotic, so OCD—it seems impossible to escape therapy-speak these days. Earlier this year, The New Yorker dedicated an issue to therapy, observing, “The language of the therapist’s office percolates in our everyday conversations.” They’re right—therapy-speak is our collective emotional language.…

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Troubled Teen Programs Should Be a Last Resort: Less Authority Is More for Teens

Troubled teen programs are the logical, furthest extension of authority. A recent New York Times editorial, “The Troubled-Teen Industry Offers Trauma, Not Therapy,” argues for more regulatory oversight and best practices for troubled teen programs, some of which have been exposed in recent years for abuse. The troubled teen industry, the teen wilderness treatment industry, and teen residential…

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Feeling Safe and Being Safe Aren’t the Same Thing (And It’s Often Hard to Tell the Difference)

There is an important distinction between feeling safe and being safe. “Everyone has a right to feel safe.” “I want you to feel really safe in my office.” These are things I often hear from other therapists and I find myself cringing in response. While there are worthwhile underlying values of safety inherent in these statements, there is also an unhelpful conflation between being safe and…

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