Two metaphors for marriage, one bad, one good Matt LundquistA Columbia University-trained psychotherapist with more than a decade of clinical experience, I’ve come to believe that what it means to help people in therapy is to help them create their lives and I relish in this challenging, playful activity. Posted on March 14, 2012 in Couples Therapy and Relationships, NYC TherapyThis is a bad metaphor for marriage: This is a much better one: Thoughts?